Graham Jones

oldmanrambling.bsky.social

I'm not a religious or spiritual person but yesterday, on the first wedding anniversary I had spent without my lovely wife in 58 years, I had a visit from a little #Robin - her favourite garden bird. It came close enough to touch. Tears were shed. #ForJanet #ECK #Photography #Birds #Nature

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Zen Zinnia

zenzinnia.bsky.social

The European robin is so delicate and adorable! I'm sure your lovely wife sent it to comfort you and fill the space left in your heart, even if only for a moment.

oldfisherman

oldfshrman.bsky.social

💔 💪🏼

DarthT15🔞

dartht15.bsky.social

TBF you can absolutely believe in that and still be a non-theist.

Joanne ✌️💙🗽 📎

happychick3.bsky.social

My family has all come back as birds. It comforts my family and I as we can still see them as well as feel them in our hearts❣️

LizS

lizsim.bsky.social

❤️

propugnaculum.bsky.social

Sometimes life seems to acknowledge our pain. Sorry for yours. Thank you for sharing.

spawngo

spawngo.bsky.social

When you start to acknowledge and affirm these messages, more will come. Former lifelong atheist converted to spirituality (and magick!) because I delved and witnessed. It is wondrous. Happy anniversary, Graham and Janet 💕 I’ll light a wee candle for y’all on my altar today. 🕯️

Ayerishgrl

ayerishgrl.bsky.social

What a lovely thing to happen on your special day. I hope it brought you joy.

JustSayin

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🙏🩷🙏

Drilon Ceka

drilonceka.bsky.social

There's nothing religious about it Graham. You guys had your anniversary. She was there. Love will bring her on every anniversary. 🎉

Marilyn Mazzotta

marilynmazzotta.bsky.social

Sorry for your lost. Know her spirit will always be close by.

Oxytocin 🇦🇺❤️🍄

oxytocin1972.bsky.social

❤️

Robert/Tony/c

robert111.bsky.social

I know these things are true through wonderful experiences I have been granted, for some faith is the second-hand belief. what I have learned is your experience often cannot help another but i am always compelled to share that there is more to life than the 5 senses can reveal

Gene47

gene47.bsky.social

I never understood how sacred a marital relationship is until we got older, now I cherish every day with my wife. Sorry for your loss and how much it has affected you. I think about this type of thing often(often with a tear in my eye) as I cannot imagine a day without her. Deepest sympathy.

Marina Jirotka

marenka.bsky.social

❤️

MdashE

mdasheismoi.bsky.social

🥹🫂

Kathryn of Tarth

theastrologyreel.bsky.social

You don’t have to be spiritual or religious to know we are all connected in one big organism and that mysterious electrical energies, some fueled by our beating electrical hearts push and pull us. You saw her favorite bird. The Robin felt you. I believe that. It’s our poetry of life. Be comforted.

Alan H

alan678.bsky.social

Just such a blessing Graham. Meant to be. If that isn’t a sign what on earth is?🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

Tammy 🇺🇸🦅💙🟧🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🇺🇦🇨🇦🇲🇽🇬🇱🧑🏼‍🏫📚🌊🏝️

educatorts.bsky.social

🫂🫶🏼 Your wife was there, for sure.

Hank Williams

hanksadventures.bsky.social

“The path of life is lit only by the light of those I’ve loved” - Johnny Cash

Linda Brown

lindabrownoz.bsky.social

❤️

rosiepunch.bsky.social

It's wonderful that you noticed the message. Peace

Laura 🟧🟦

lclaura.bsky.social

This kind of experience has also happened to me. I found it so comforting and healing. Peace be with you.

Mcnutt

ginny1956.bsky.social

😘

Babylon’s Sister

culturelover.bsky.social

I like you, I am not a religious person, but a day after my dad died, a beautiful cardinal swooped near me and flew off into the sky. In that moment I became a believer in the oneness of all things.

callmegram.bsky.social

Aww, so sorry to hear about you losing her. I imagine it to be very difficult. But somehow, I think of that robin as a sign. Hope each day gets better.

Nici

nici17.bsky.social

“There is more between heaven and earth, “. 💕

dcc75.bsky.social

Peace be with you.🙏🏾🪔

Bush Walker

duncan-waddell.bsky.social

explanations kill the magic. just enjoy and always wonder.

Rosecrucian Roeth

rosecrucian.bsky.social

❤️❤️

alisonwillis1.bsky.social

❤️

Yvonne Jeannine

yvonnejeannine.bsky.social

Yes, it was her.

Mary Kilgallen

marykilgallen.bsky.social

I lost my husband a few years back but I still get little signs from him letting me know that he near. Sending you hugs.

MISTRESS ANGIE

angiekinkyprincess.bsky.social

This is beautiful, she deffinatley came to say hello

Politics and Health 🗳️ 🩺

politicshealth.bsky.social

That loss never really leaves you. But the memories ease the pain.

CJ

cjharry.bsky.social

🥲💚

Elena.Marie

pronounsplease.bsky.social

Sending hugs 🫂

fforr.bsky.social

Love to hear this … my robin also has my husband’s ‘soul’ we talk daily

wlapaopwopsoapoa.bsky.social

Sometimes the smallest encounters bring the biggest comfort. A truly precious memory to hold onto.

dreadpiratechooch.bsky.social

Beautiful post although I am so sorry for her loss

rictilbe.bsky.social

Yesterday a Hummingbird Hawk moth flew into my conservatory and zoomied around for a couple of minutes before flying out again. Apparently the morning my wee sister died a couple of weeks ago one flew into her kitchen and landed briefly on the kitchen table. Weird.

defeline.bsky.social

Oh! My heart goes out to you. 🤗 That was her!! I had (and keep having) very similar experiences after my mom died. I know she was always aware of my love of birds and uses them to touch me. 🕊️

Jimmy Innes

jimmyinnes.bsky.social

May robins forever be within your touch #ForJanet 🙏🏻💙🙏🏻

Elizabeth

misu2025.bsky.social

I am so sorry for your loss. That little bird gave you a sign. Your wife is at peace, and some day you will both meet again.

HrhRaizen

hrhraizen.bsky.social

Let that stay within your heart.💖 As my Dad's funeral was ending, a CLEAR double rainbow appeared. Three weeks later, I was having a really, really rough day. I walked out on the patio to breathe only to see the most beautiful double rainbow as if it was him saying "I'm here, my darling daughter!"

Nkomis

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Loreduck 🦋Blue 🇮🇹 Network🦋

loreduck22.bsky.social

She still exists. Believe in her. Not in religions, which are human manipulations, but we are not just flesh and blood. There is much more. Great gift to awake you from her.

JenOLoughlin 🇺🇦

jenoloughlin.bsky.social

She needed to visit and say “Hello, I miss you too, I’m here.” 🥹 💞

☘️🧉🎨 Maria O'Connor 💙

mariaoconnor.bsky.social

I had a similar experience with my aunt when she died. She was living in the other side of the hemisphere. A bird appear on my window & two hours later I got a call notifying me, she died. I am not superstitious; but I felt impressed

JOY🦉

missjoy1965.bsky.social

😢

mmkeefe.bsky.social

How lovely for you ❤️❤️my husband always tells me he’ll come back to me as a bird🙏

Nyambura Kamau

nyamburakamau.bsky.social

Moments like this💜

XraynaVotesBlue 🇺🇸🇺🇦🇨🇦🇲🇽

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🌻

pasmondictateur.bsky.social

Synchronicity. Enjoy it. No need to analyze. So very sorry for your loss.

Prdnme

prdnme.bsky.social

Some things just can’t be explained away. They are felt with the heart.

Bexhill Museum

bexhillmuseum.bsky.social

Sending lots of good wishes your way.

Parker Black

markofeureka.bsky.social

A blessing worth hanging onto.

CJ McGuinness

cjmcg1966.bsky.social

♥️

Certified Alien

certified-alien.bsky.social

You are not the first person this has happened to that I’ve heard about. Even in my own family.

CitizensKnow

citizensknow.bsky.social

It surely was your wife in spirit form. It's a blessing that you recognized her visit.

uthinktoo

uthink2.bsky.social

I'm coming back as a bird... and i know my Dad leaves me feathers

Muttsylvania

muttsylvania.bsky.social

My favorite poem from John Keats, “Lamia,” reads . . . Philosophy will clip an angel’s wings, Conquer all mysteries by rule and line, Empty the haunted air, and gnomed mine, Unweave a rainbow, as it erewhile made . . . All I know, Graham, is that embracing beauty and magic makes our lives richer.

Terry

tezzerrk.bsky.social

Its funny how so many people associate Robins with absent loved ones!

eaglewatcher.bsky.social

Beautiful!

Hillwoman ❌👑

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🫶🏻

Lee Rowan 🐕 🐈‍⬛ 🌳 🌈 🏳️‍🌈 🇨🇦 🐉 🇺🇦🦇🪶🖋️ 🇺🇸

leerowan.bsky.social

It's okay to be spiritual. We really are spirits in a material world. And so are all the other living things on the planet. Anniversaries are hard, and they sneak up on you. My condolences.

Pam Brown

pamlivengoodbrown.bsky.social

Wonderful Graham! I‘m sorry it was a tough day, and hope the robin sighting lifted your spirits 🧡

Bill

sporb.bsky.social

You touched a stranger in a different country. I too am headed for this eventuality. Please take comfort in sharing this.

Trudy

trudymm.bsky.social

The time without them is so hard. Sometimes things come that give comfort...if only for a moment...and that is a wonderful thing.

peacehippie.bsky.social

Nothing really disappears in our universe. Things change and can become something else, but they don’t go away.

lisdoon.bsky.social

💙💙❤️💚💔

Susan Cushing

sdcushing.bsky.social

All my love to you.

TexaKiwi 🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇸🇳🇿🐈🫘

texaskiwi70.bsky.social

🙏🏻♥️🐦

swellgal.bsky.social

Birds of a feather... love one another together!

Cyderdelic

cyderdelic.bsky.social

Robins appear when loved ones are near..♥️

Sunbeamgardener

sunbeamgardener5.bsky.social

This is hard.

Travellin’ John

travellinjohn.bsky.social

👍😎🙏

Loretta from Canada🇨🇦

myview66.bsky.social

🫂

stephthethird.bsky.social

❤️ She'd sent an angel to check up on you, knowing your day would be hard. 58 years is such a blessing. I'm so sorry for your loss.

KRKFM

krkfm.bsky.social

✌🏾🫡

robertjeff57-58.bsky.social

Beautiful shots

Easily distract…

djscribbla.bsky.social

Very special moment, thank you for sharing

severn3024.bsky.social

Sounds like you were blessed with a wonderful marriage. I am sorry for your loss.

Mike Oxford

mikoxford.bsky.social

❤️❤️❤️

Messy Cook

adfonteslogos.bsky.social

This happens with a few people I've said goodbye to. Cardinals especially. And really strange moths bc my mom loved them. Monarch butterflies are my sister checking in. I'm a bit crazy and I still talk to everybody. As they've all abandoned me lol. I really do, and at times I feel their reply. Peace

Bethann🦋

bethbodee.bsky.social

Her spirit is alive! 🫶

Ivan Richardson.

inshado.bsky.social

Robins are so beautiful, particularly against a backdrop of snow and holly trees with berries. Just fills you with joy.

Peggy from PA

peggyfrompa.bsky.social

I have had similar experiences after my dad’s death- a red-winged blackbird and female cardinal that stayed close for minutes when a typical bird would immediately take flight at that distance. Embrace the comfort those experiences bring!

Govans Gal

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TriedTrue 💙 Resist/Rebel. Searching for ANTIFA headqtrs

triedtrue.bsky.social

What a lovely moment. It was magical because you knew it was her favorite and it brought you happy memories through those tears. Who knows? Perhaps it was Janet's way of letting you know she is fine and you should be as well. The pain of grief is immeasurable. I hope you found some relief yesterday.

Nina Gomes, Founder Chiron Arts, llc

chironarts.bsky.social

💖

Samantha Elley

talesfromthegrave.bsky.social

Nature has an amazing way of soothing when needed.

mukuelakai.bsky.social

She was saying "Happy Anniversary"😊

JoJo Mineo

jojomineo69.bsky.social

So very sorry for your loss. May the wonderful memories you accumulated over nearly six decades together comfort you at this time. RIP JANET.

Chelle ✊🌻 fElon hacked the election

blueallylove.bsky.social

That was definitely a hello. 💖

K.D. Keenan

k-d-keenan.bsky.social

May her memory be a blessing.

Karen D Shipp

karendshipp.bsky.social

Beautiful. ❤️ And it honestly doesn't matter what you believe! Our knowledge & understanding are limited by the constraints of our human condition. There will always be truths that are way beyond our ability to perceive & conceptualise. And those truths don't depend on what we do or don't believe.

fitzified74💙✌️☘️🏴‍☠️🕊🐶🤟☕️☕️

suefitzbrad74.bsky.social

It's the little things that keep us going. ❤️

Holly

holly57.bsky.social

❤️

dfhitch

dfhitch.bsky.social

Robin’s know.

Beth Unlimited

metabeth.bsky.social

I will always believe that if we see a "sign" from a loved one, it is truly a sign. Thank you for sharing that beautiful moment. 🫶

Robert Loves Photography

robertspictures.bsky.social

Sounds very religious and spiritual to me since religion and spirit are all about love. Be hugged from Germany, Graham.

Betty Jane

old747.bsky.social

My mate loved Cardinals and Blue Birds... I see one and I always say Hi.. The signs I see are reminders of love.

coachalgeo.bsky.social

🙏💪💚🕊️

Radio Caroline’s Ghost

clynnn.bsky.social

It sounds like you had a visit❤️

💙Ctnative 🌻🌻 🏳️‍🌈🇺🇸💙

ctnative.bsky.social

I’m so sorry for your loss graham. God has given us the beautiful gift of nature to sustain us through our grief , trials, loss. G-d bless you

💙Ctnative 🌻🌻 🏳️‍🌈🇺🇸💙

ctnative.bsky.social

Very pretty coastline!

BelleAB

belleab.bsky.social

🤍🤍🤍

Dr. Fledermaus

animus45.bsky.social

Tears were shed here as well…❤️

ByrneBabyByrne

itsmesb.bsky.social

What a lovely tribute. Thank you for sharing.

Consumed

consumed.bsky.social

IMHO, you can believe in things unseen and not be religious. Our human eyes don't see all. I don't know enough to know what I am not seeing.

Diane

notalwaysladydi.bsky.social

After my son died, a cardinal visited an outdoor gathering of close family after his memorial. It just stayed for the longest time and then flew away. All noticed and were moved to tears.

aekm.bsky.social

Such a wonderful experience for you.. treasure it.. tears of joy and remembrance.. beautiful

kaykayiam.bsky.social

Everyone is a spiritual person. Bless you and the robin and your dear wife.

Finewood

finewood.bsky.social

It was also my father's favorite bird. He was a beekeeper and even knew a robin that would peck drone larvae out of his hand. When my father died, his bird suddenly appeared at the window and tapped on the glass. Warm greetings from Switzerland (Translated from German)

Tanya

oskartronic.bsky.social

❤️

Nina Rodham Clinton

sazerac66.bsky.social

💕 to both of you.

Old Grazing Horse

grazinghorse.bsky.social

Nothing- nothing is random. There is a reason for everything. There are no coincidences.

7jane.bsky.social

wow that nice

Buffybob

buffybob.bsky.social

U know she is with u!❤️💙

bluegirlsrule.bsky.social

Beautiful.

thrasher62.bsky.social

Birds are the spirits that carry messages from the other side. I've seen this so many times with people close to me that I've lost. It seems so very obvious to me. It's how our loved ones communicate with us. My condolences to you❤️😞

mashflagg.bsky.social

Sorry for your loss

Marie Louise Bosin

mlbosin.bsky.social

This just happens to be a spiritual experience. I have had several with birds.

Future ExPat

moonshinea.bsky.social

Ted Andrews says Nature speaks to us in all ways but sends the animals to us with messages we must hear. I'm glad you got the message 💕

Dr. DioxiNation

djzaber.bsky.social

These two hung with me after my divorce. They understood! 😉🥹

Dr. DioxiNation

djzaber.bsky.social

She is with you, brother.

JJ

jjjmm.bsky.social

💔😭❤️

Via Afrika She/her 🏳️‍🌈

viaafrika.bsky.social

What a beautiful post. Of course it was her spirit. So sorry for your loss 💔

Kathy Roberts

wrobertswriter.bsky.social

A visit from nature is always somehow deeply felt, like you were selected to witness something ordinary but beautiful. The bird brought to mind love. What could be more mystical than this?

Heidi n Joe

heidinjoe.bsky.social

🙏

cliffgal

cliffgal.bsky.social

❤️🙏💐

manyanaparadise.bsky.social

Stunning we had babies visit us this year. ❤️

Geenie1234@bluesky.com

geenie1234.bsky.social

💜

NOLA Sid 🇺🇸 🇺🇦

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❤️

Michael Hall

augusteve2024.bsky.social

Maybe it's time for some spiritual awakening because obviously your wife knows you needed the sign.

Paul K. Smith

paulksmith.bsky.social

💞

Soph0571

soph0517.bsky.social

What an absolute gift G - such a visual to hold her close to you on such a difficult day. Just amazing 🤗

🧩 Lorrie 💙🧡🏀

herzog25.bsky.social

She’s watching over you sir and she’ll be there when you meet again. I firmly believe that because my husband has made his presence known to me several times. 💖

Rebecca Williams

dragonhousestudios.bsky.social

I don’t know how everything works either and yet when things like this happen it is wonderful and magical.

Khopal

khopalofficial.bsky.social

An incredibly emotional and beautiful moment. Janet's cherished memories will always be with you.

ptpdrhirosru

marcjfleischmann.bsky.social

🙏

nursejeanne.bsky.social

So very sorry for your loss. And, glad for the little bit of comfort. Been in health care 50 years. We are all connected,sir. We are also pure energy. Energy never dies, it changes form. That is my belief after all these years. There are little miracles all around us. Thank you for sharing. 😊

Silvia S.

silviaschreiber.bsky.social

Similar experiences happened to me. Comforting and thankful for the experience. I'm glad you noticed the little robin.

Tressa

tressab77.bsky.social

So sorry for your loss.

fozziefotos.eurosky.social

❤️

OldLadyInAZ 🌵

oldladyinaz.bsky.social

She is checking up on you to make sure you are okay and letting you know that she is okay and is with you.

💛💜JB💛💜

msjulesb.bsky.social

Neither am I, Graham… but I have experienced moments that have made me stop and wonder, as they somehow feel significant …. Beautiful photos… what a lovely visitor 🌿💚❤️🫶

Anwen Wilson

anwenwilson.bsky.social

Magical and beautiful, much like your wife. Best wishes to you x

Oonagh

okeating.bsky.social

I'm very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing the pictures of the robin. What a lovely moment to have experienced.

socialistandproud.bsky.social

Thanks for sharing that story. It must have been a tough day. All the best.

Sssshhh_im_thinkin

chickie63.bsky.social

🫂

eyeconic.me

eyeconicme.bsky.social

Moments like that are special.

Shawn

stubbornirish.bsky.social

There are signs. I get them too

Mick Lister

listermj.bsky.social

Wonderful - hopefully your la'al (little) marra decides to stick around Graham. However anyone might try to logically interpret it, all that matters is how it felt to you Graham.

notmine20172025

notmine20172025.bsky.social

When the best orange cat in the history of orange cats finally succumbed to his kidney disease, an owl followed the car that evening, flying right next to the drivers side and within our sight. He was telling us Thor was safe. Nine years later I still cry about him. He truly was human in cat form. 💔

Dano53

dano53.bsky.social

😢Sorry for your loss.

Susan

susanethel.bsky.social

Thanks for sharing this beautiful story

Gina

createnewpaths.bsky.social

Breathtaking moment Graham. A sad & beautiful moment I’m sure. No matter our beliefs, you needed care on this day and care was given and you accepted it and then shared it It’s a beautiful

Sydney Carton

quodnomenmihiest.bsky.social

🥲

blueanimallover.bsky.social

I'm so grateful you had this experience, Graham. Of such events, memories are made. Hearts are touched. Blessings are bestowed. #ForJanet #ForGraham

Jackie

jblueroom.bsky.social

youtu.be/xBkRCd2UCLI?...

Ohma

ohma57.bsky.social

It's been 18yrs without my hubby and I still miss him daily , my 5 yr old grand tells some of his jokes so he still lives in our hearts and sense of humour. It's a sweet pain now . Best wishes

frenchietazzy.bsky.social

A strong physical and emotional sense that she is still with you. In some way, shape and or form. I don’t know how, but I believe it happens. I’m glad she showed up to check on you.

Cubbie50

cubbie50.bsky.social

So sorry for your loss

Paula (Fella) 🇺🇦💙💛

monks2.bsky.social

🥹💔💔

madamechic.bsky.social

Energy lives on. Love never dies. Your wife is always with you and always will be. ❤️

palmdessert.bsky.social

Maybe it was her in a different form, saying”hi”.

huson1st.bsky.social

My condolences, friend. Remember the good times

emily404.bsky.social

I truly believe spirit does not die, but is reborn in other ways. To embrace that, I've found it helps ease the pain of loss.

Katya Nouveau🇨🇦

katyanouveau.bsky.social

I’m sorry for your loss. It was lovely of you to tell us about your experience.

johnny martin

mrjohnnymartin.bsky.social

guess who?

nnoir226

nnoir226.bsky.social

💙

Beno Foss

benofs9.bsky.social

She came to say "hello and I still love you" .

Karen Z

nidanmere.bsky.social

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Capt Kath

kathgirl1987.bsky.social

I’m so sorry for your loss.

Laura-Elseplace

laura-elseplace.bsky.social

I'm a heathen unbeliever myself, but when it comes to couples with so strong a love, I do hope I am wrong. I like to think maybe some things are unstoppable...

Bridging Species with Elveera

lifespeaks.bsky.social

No doubts it was sent by her 💗

Deb

dak2hope.bsky.social

🙏

Crystalline🪽

vivelafemme.bsky.social

Same. After my Dad died I moved to CO. I love being in nature and I often think that when I see a Robin, it’s my Dad saying “hi”. There are a lot of Robins here, I know-but I always see a singular Robin just when I need to… and I always say “Hi Daddy”. 🥹🩵 Watch and listen for signs, they are there.

Glenn Daly

glenndaly.bsky.social

💔

ZimJay

zimjay.bsky.social

How sweet

JonSam

jonsam1961b.bsky.social

very sorry for your loss. take care.

Jones

fishergirl66.bsky.social

♥️

Pantrywoman

pantrywoman.bsky.social

🥲❤️

eaglecanfly.bsky.social

A message sent to you Graham.

Charlie Nelson

charly54art.bsky.social

My condolences on your loss of your lovely wife. Anniversaries, birthdays - all remembered milestones are difficult. After losing my husband of 32 years in 2015, I sat lost & alone in the yard when a single bluejay feather drifted down slowly, landing at my feet - Larry's favorite bird.

Rachel Richmond

saudaderachel.bsky.social

Peace.

Rob Crank Photography

robcrank68.bsky.social

Beautiful series of captures Graham, and here's a set to go with yours #ForJanet #birds #ECK #Robins #photography

Amyhr

amylittlebluedot.bsky.social

Great photos! I am so sorry for your loss.

Scubagrl

scubagrl.bsky.social

she is watching over you...you don't have to be religious to have spirituality, in fact they are rather the opposite...our spirits don't disappear...we just evolve...maybe build your little Robin a beautiful bird house ✨

albert2021.bsky.social